The ability of a Women !!


The ability of a woman is her kind heart where she bestows
her love for others forever .
Where her smile on the face can increase your determination to the highest level.

The ability of a woman is the amazing  to bring a new life to the world 
withstanding the  immense pain  inside her.
It’s the ability  of her to raise her child even if the lack of support from the man who too bring the child and  until
they  grown.

The ability of a woman to protect her child like a bird taking care of their babies is so hostile.
It’s the touch of her hands that shows the natural
warmth when your spirits  is feeling low.

The ability of a woman knows how to remain calm to change the things for the better,
It’s the lovely expression she conveys with the eyes
and respect for herself….

The ability of a woman is that she knows she is made for another family 
despite of her father’s queen at her own home,
It’s her that makes the two world with her wisdom of sages.

Her soul is immeasurable where she put a different identity reaching out of her past infinity
where she is open , fearless and sweet which a man can need.

She is divine and her heart is as deep as of a sea,
she is born with the fire of queen and conquers the world alone
which need a vision to see.

She is more than one can think and one single can empower thousands of other women who needs to breathe.

This sums up a small reflection of her unconditional love , power,beauty and inspiration from where she had been from the  start .




Where There is a Will There Is a Way !!!

If you can’t believe in miracles, then believe in yourself. When you want something bad enough, let that drive push you to make it happen. Sometimes you’ll run into brick walls that are put there to test you. Find a way around them and stay focused on your dream. Where there’s a will, there’s a way.
Every body wants to be successful in his life. But while dreaming success one should not forget the battle, which is necessary for victory. Life is beautiful when the art of living is understood.
I think we use this Proverbs often and experienced in our daily life, when someone try hard  to get something from his heart he tries to get it with all his efforts and will power.
I think nothing is impossible in this world once you try hard. If the will power is strong anything can be achieved.  If you want to achieve something you mus have to  struggle. Throw yourself in the voile of your aim. Do not think about the deepness and results of your task when you will achieve your aim. You will definitely forget about the struggle and pain.
One beautiful example I am giving that a small sparrow makes a very beautiful nest with the help of her will power. It is an art, which comes from her will power protect her children. Will power gives courage and energy to win.
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Everybody knows that success does not go to those who never struggle. But while dreaming success one should be always ready for hard work. It is not something which can be achieved by spending money. But will power, which comes from your soul and heart, is needed if your will power is strong.You will be successful, and a successful person is always found confident. But success demands hard work, struggle, sacrifice etc
How to increase your willpower
1. Increase your capacity for pressure: Learn how to manage stress.
2. Encourage yourself to stick to your plan.
3. Get more sleep to help your brain manage energy better.
4. Meditate (for as little as 8 weeks)
5. Better exercise and nutrition: The most ignored route to higher willpower
6. Postpone things for later to gain focus on what’s important now
So struggle hard and be successful, nothing is impossible if your will is strong. You can achieve everything. After all where there is a will there is a way. Do not be afraid of failure because failure is the first step on the way to success; learn to face problems.
Bear your troubles don’t worry and be happy. Remember that if you laugh the whole world laughs with you but if you weep you will have to weep alone With your strong will power and enthusiasm any great thing can be achieved.

I  would be remiss if I didn’t take the time to thank you, my faithful readers for visiting my site and reading my articles. I truly appreciate you!

About me !!

 || Me, Myself & I ||A list of some random facts about me. Don’t know if you will find it interesting or not, but this is what I know of me.. Happy Reading!! 🤗
1. My name is Preety Nisha. I was born in 1988.
2. I am a cusp between Gemini-Pisces and it means nothing to me.
3. Studious and sincere – sums up my education days. (yeah – a book worm kinda person 😌)

  • Deliberate and hopeful. It is learning we set out to make happen in the belief that people can ‘be more’;
  • Informed, respectful and wise. A process of inviting truth and possibility.
  • Grounded in a desire that at all may flourish and share in life. It is a cooperative and inclusive activity that looks to help people to live their lives as well as they can.

4. The travel bug is probably genetic as my family always has the next trip planned before the first one ends. I have visited almost all the beautiful places in India and will surely tell you to visit Gulmarg which is in Jammu and Kashmir .It is extremely beautiful to visit .

I believe travel is important to broaden your horizons, to help understand that we are all citizens of one world with very diverse backgrounds, opportunities and histories. I also just love to see new places and to experience the beauty, food and people of different regions.
5. My mom is the strongest individual I know – I mean it! (one day, when I feel stronger, I will share her story, one day
6. I can count the number of best friends that I have.I can say that I have been lucky in Friendship . Have some Gem kind of friends which have surely help out me and supported me in all my situations of life .
7. My weakness I just bad in trust people easily. I’m an emotional girl but I will overcome by my strengths., my strength is that I am a quick learner and adaptable self-motivated person., my confidence level is quite high as I don’t compare myself with anyone. I  Try doing things that my brain tells me that I can’t. 
8. I prefer tea over coffee though I am addicted to none. I still prefer the classic taste of tea, and I never fail to drink at least 2 cups of tea a day! I’m also aware that tea is a much healthier option to coffee.
9. I have never cooked in my life before my Post Graduation. (not proud of it, but surely i can cook some dishes very tasty ) Recently I learned making Chicken Biryani (Indian dish ).I am also quite fond of sweets and chocolates too much can’t resist having them in my daily going day .I love Indian Rashmalai ( sweets) a lot .

10. I am in search of my soulmate or you can say I want to keep this information little close as of now .Though I had few crush when I was a student .

11. It might sound cliche – but I don’t like myself in selfies much .

12. I am a complete believer in love and I think Love is something that is cultivated between two people and grows over time, through getting to know him or her and experiencing life’s many ups and downs together. It involves commitment, time, mutual trust, and acceptance.

  • Feeling unloved is strongly correlated with feelings of low self-esteem and depression.
  • People who both feel loved by others and who report loving other people tend to be happier.
  • Love can play a role in long-term health, and feeling emotionally connected may help increase immunity.

13. About my hobbies , I like “I like traveling and long walks on the beach,” My hobbies are watching movies and listening to songs. Especially I watch movies which are very Innovative  and Adventurous  like The Grey, Narnia, Harry Potter, Bourne Series , Taken series ,Wonder women , Black panther and many more . I am a big Fan of Liam Nesson . Recently I have started reading books. One of the book which inspired me a lot is ‘The Last Girl by Naadia Muraad’.

My another biggest hobby is Photography . I own D 5300 DSLR camera .Photography allows you to create images of events, times, and places. To both record what happened and allow you to share them with friends and family, either in digital format or more permanently with prints or photo books.
By being able to capture a special moment in time, you carry the memory of that event forward with you, allowing you to share it and remember it with those that were there. Those memories become part of your history, perhaps family lore, not just stories passed down through the generations – but images as well. As the popular idiom says, “A picture is worth a thousand words”.
Another important hobby of mine is to speak German .  I have learned German language through a learning school and now I have couples of friends in India as well as  in Germany with whom I talk freely in German language .
Was sind deine Hobbys? / Was sind deine Interessen?Meine Hobbys sind lesen , malen , mit Freunden treffen,tanzen  , reisen und ins Kino gehen.
I haven’t written the translation so see if you can understand this .
Driving, for me, is about being one with the machine. It feels magical (at least to me) to be able to use all the little techniques that use the hidden capabilities of the car and the driver and make driving a more involved activity, be it engine braking, heel and toe, etc.My best experience has been driving through the twisty, narrow streets of Bangalore when they are empty, and some of the curvy wide roads in Pune. Like I said, I’ve mostly driven in the city, and that means not much high speed driving. Still, I’ve loved every bit of it.
14. Family comes first for me. Rather than simply defining family by a dictionary definition, each individual should look to define a family by his own standards, enriching the dictionary’s definition. You can have several families in your lifetime, even several families at once if you choose. Regardless of how you choose to define your family unit, whether it is traditional or unique, your definition is of the family unit that works for you. As the saying goes, “

15. My favorite dress – I love to wear shirts and pants made from jeans fabric. I frequently wear them when I move out of my work here. There are few reasons for picking this type of outfit. They are durable and gorgeous to look at. Besides, jeans fabrics are comfortable with and you will need less cleaning on them. You can use them in almost all types of occasions. And they fit with all types of shoes. Considering all the matters, this appears special to me.Apart from that I like wearing dress but it is of very specific brand like I use Zara,Vero moda ,H&M , and AND Brands .Also my ethnic dress ends at BIBA Brand .I think dressing is an important part of your personality development .

16. I don’t like reading newspaper now as I am not getting much time for it . There are few apps in my mobile which can easily update me of the current affairs going in the world . I read selectively now.

17. I don’t like religious talks (u know what I mean).
Not really, people believe what they want to believe sometimes I think its just something for people to argue about.No specific religion…. But I am spiritual. The Buddha has some good ideas, tho 🙂 I don’t believe in an organized religion. I believe there is a heaven & hell and I don’t need somebody to tell me that.I believe in acceptance in all religions.(God is one )
18. I really don’t know if there is a life after this one, so I’m doing what I can with the one I’ve got now… but I do believe there is a part of us that is more than just our bodies… and if reincarnation is true, I am trying my best to be really good in this life .

19. I like myself for every small reason because
 you are an art made of yourself. If you don’t love yourself,Start doing so!I love myself a lot. I admire all the good qualities that I possess and tries to improve upon my weaknesses. During my childhood days, I used to be a quite and a shy girl. But I knew that I was not that sort of person who likes to be quiet.
I changed myself from an introvert to an Ambivert person. I started participating in extra-curricular activities in school and college. I started interacting with people. I became a kind of social bee. Initially I also used to be jealous of some people and their achievements. But now I am equally opposite of what I used to be. I am happy that I accepted my weakness and improved upon it. When I get to know about some of my weakness and that seems to be genuine to me I accept it and tries hard to get over it.I have high ambitions in my life to do this or that. And at the same time I am a lazy lass. So yes, fighting with the laziness.
20. I don’t follow any fashion trends.I think everyone knows this and it is so true. Fashion trends are constantly changing and the clothes you wear today may suddenly become out of fashion tomorrow. So, I feel this is a great example of why sometimes following fashion trends is not always a great idea. I honestly do follow trends, but just when I like them. I’m not concerned about wearing the latest fashion every single time. Instead, I choose to wear what I like, whether it’s a current trend or it’s off season.

21. I love food. I am a non vegetarian and I have tried all Western Pizzas to  Indian Thalies , Chinese cuisine and Japanese food like Sushi.
22. I like being active. 10k steps everyday atleast. Current aspiration: to join a gym!

My life ‘s mantra is Life is a progress, and not a station.

Sunshine Blogger Award #2

I am so honored to have been nominated a second time for the Sunshine Blogger Award !
I was nominated by the lovely and talented itslifelyn.
She is a beautiful soul , generous and kind .  I am so grateful She’s part of my amazing blogging community . Thank you itslifelyn for your kind nomination.  It is truly an honor coming from you .
You can visit itslifelyn’s wonderful blog here :
The Rules:
Thank the person who nominated you and provide a link back to their blogging sites.
Answer the questions.
Nominate 11 other bloggers and ask them 11 new questions.
Notify the nominees about it by commenting on one of their blog posts.
List the rules and display the sunshine blogger award logo on your site or on your  post.
Q & A   
1. What is your favorite pet?
My favorite pet is dog because they are so cute .
2. What is your birthstone?
My birthstone is Green Emerald 
3. What is your dream job?
I love my own profession being an HR of a company. 
4. Who is your favorite person and why?
Definitely my mum. 
She’s helped me through so much, and she is so supportive of me. She also let’s me live, which is something I think more parents should do in moderation. My mum gives me just enough space and she lets me make my own decisions.I seriously have no idea where I’d be right now if she is not there. 
5. Who is your favorite author?
My favorite author is J.K. ROWLING as she completely  drawn my attention into the story after watching Harry potter series and I can watch it again and again without getting myself bore.
6. What is your favorite quote?
My favorite quote is “Don’t take life too seriously, you’ll never get out of it alive.” 
7. What is the one thing you can’t live without?
I think Internet as the world is so close with internet . A smartphone or PC is dead without an Internet connection.
8. What is your greatest fear?
My greatest fear is  Losing a loved one. love is the nutrient of human self and without it may be our hearts become hard and not see the shining things in the life. 
9. What is the bravest thing you ever did?
I think , I Called off my Marriage Proposals coming at my early stage of carrier .
10. What is the silliest thing you did for love?
I am still waiting to have someone who can show me the true definition of love. 
11. If you have just one wish for yourself what would it be?
I think the sincerity to not use my dreams as an escape from uncomfortable reality, but as goals to be achieved even if they make me uncomfortable.

Questions for my nominees:
1. Which country you belong from ?
2. Whom you are closer to in your life i.e. either mom or dad?
3. What is your dream destination?
4. What is your favorite movie?
5. What is your hobby?
6. What is your greatest strength?
7. What is the meaning of love to you ?
8. Who is your best friend?
9. Do you believe in God ?
10. Can you live without your smartphone for one day?
11. Are you happy with your current life?
My Nominees Are:
Enjoy Blogging,
Thank you.
Good luck to all of us.

Finding happiness within yourself !!

Every now and often , we are asked by many people in our life that-‘Are you really happy as you share such a positive things and happy moments “, Is your life really going all perfect ? So I have shared my thoughts and feelings  on this topic ,hope you all like it –


Since our childhood we are being told by our parents and elders not to crib or cry for small desire , be always happy , life life as your own way , stay positive in adverse situations of life and always keep yourself fit to take the challenges of the life etc etc and I am sure that by now we all know this and how  all of us make the most of each day .

We start our day with a positive mind each day but there are lot of things which make our day not so positive for example we can have a bad day in our office , may be due to any reason your boss is not happy with you or your peers , another example is your relationship . You are having complication in your relationship whether it is with your husband / boyfriend or with your closest friend can make you feel low or sad .Your mental power is so low that even you cannot concentrate properly on your work or daily life .Another example I can take is your health issues, which might be you are not taking seriously .

Then after dealing with such stuffs we start to find our happiness in others . we start to look for happiness in people around us or the one who inspire us . Some people really work as a medicine for us and give us a hope that we can have a happy life like others .I  can say that no one is having a perfect life as we see from outside .If one’s post regularly their happy pictures on social media , its doesn’t mean that their is no problem in their life . We need to understand this .

I find happiness in myself . I don’t need any external medium to make me happy .  I can be happy playing with a small baby or Having a cup of coffee in my balcony . I engage my mind in such a way that their is no time to think of others or why i am not successful as others are . I  can be happy seeing the birds flying in the sky or the clouds covering the moon .  I  can be happy when the rain is going to start or solving any issues of my friend who is having a hard day at work.

One thing is very important in life that never compare yourself with anyone.Trust me , no one gets life served on a plate .  Its the attitude to look at the glass half full which makes happy looking people genuinely happy so work hard , be sincere and have the right attitude towards life !!1535461423-road

Discover what makes you truly happy !!!!

My capture

DSC_1473 The Sky—

Hey why you change so often , sometimes grey,
Sometimes blue, sometimes crimson,
You are immense, you are endless;

You are limitless, you are boundless,

As far as my eyes can see,

You are my hope, and you are the inspiration to the sad hearts,
Looking up to you in the sky , the tiny me,
To touch you, is my ultimate desire,

I always wish to , that if I was the sea,
To reflect  all your colors  truly,
And  meet you often at the horizon,
To show all my love,
As boundless as thee.

Does your personality attracts people !

Attraction is not always about looks or getting styled. It’s about a certain primal magnetism. Of course, we can be physically attracted to someone by our style and beautyIMG_9161, but we are more often drawn to their confidence, passion and personality. Being attractive is about more than just appearance.

I have a lot of sides to my personality and what you see on ‘The Hills’ is a strong, independent woman, which I am. But I also have a sensitive side that I don’t show too much.
Somehow our society has formed a one-sided view of the human personality, and for some reason everyone understood that it is  gifted and  only as it applied to the intellect. But it is possible not only to be talented in one’s thoughts but also to be talented in one’s feelings as well. I’ve always avoided publicity. I’ve never been good copy at any stage of my life. I don’t strive for it, because I don’t think it’s important whether I’m good copy or not. The two can go together, if that’s your personality, but every person on this earth is unique.

I wasn’t a friendly child. I was reserved and mostly kept to myself. My family tells me they’ve noticed a sea change in me after I’ve grown up. But I guess that’s natural. Your surroundings, friends, college, etc. do make a lot of difference to your personality.

If you have anything really valuable to contribute to the world it will come through the expression of your own personality, that single spark of divinity that sets you off and makes you different from every other living creature.We recruit our people for personality. We look for the people person, with innate warmth, sweetness, and intelligence. These are the people who are sending your message out to the customers and potential customers, so we recruit for personality first and foremost.

For me, the beauty of a person is a matter of the whole package. You have to look at the whole thing, not just a matter of outward appearance or whatever. It has to do with one’s character, personality, upbringing and so on.