Attraction is not always about looks or getting styled. It’s about a certain primal magnetism. Of course, we can be physically attracted to someone by our style and beauty, but we are more often drawn to their confidence, passion and personality. Being attractive is about more than just appearance.
I have a lot of sides to my personality and what you see on ‘The Hills’ is a strong, independent woman, which I am. But I also have a sensitive side that I don’t show too much.
Somehow our society has formed a one-sided view of the human personality, and for some reason everyone understood that it is gifted and only as it applied to the intellect. But it is possible not only to be talented in one’s thoughts but also to be talented in one’s feelings as well. I’ve always avoided publicity. I’ve never been good copy at any stage of my life. I don’t strive for it, because I don’t think it’s important whether I’m good copy or not. The two can go together, if that’s your personality, but every person on this earth is unique.
I wasn’t a friendly child. I was reserved and mostly kept to myself. My family tells me they’ve noticed a sea change in me after I’ve grown up. But I guess that’s natural. Your surroundings, friends, college, etc. do make a lot of difference to your personality.
If you have anything really valuable to contribute to the world it will come through the expression of your own personality, that single spark of divinity that sets you off and makes you different from every other living creature.We recruit our people for personality. We look for the people person, with innate warmth, sweetness, and intelligence. These are the people who are sending your message out to the customers and potential customers, so we recruit for personality first and foremost.
For me, the beauty of a person is a matter of the whole package. You have to look at the whole thing, not just a matter of outward appearance or whatever. It has to do with one’s character, personality, upbringing and so on.
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But you know present world only see outer beauty .there is no value of inner beauty
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No it’s value is not seen sometimes by the correct eyes to see , outer beauty is ugly if we are not good enough from inside . Outer beauty decomposes very easily with time .☺️
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Ya I Am agree a spcl vision is needed to see the inner beauty
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Yeah true , everyone not have that correct vision to see !!!
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Sadly, that is true.
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I agree with you…beautifully explained.
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Thanks dear for reading my blog . I am so glad ☺️
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Pleasure 🙂
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Hey, I love this post. Some people do have a special aura about themselves which makes them appealing and attractive even if they are not particularly beautiful in the outside. It has happened to me that I have learned to like someone trully, in the beginning I didn’t find them attractive physically, but by knowing them, my vision changed gradually. The reverse is also true, a beautiful person on the outside can become ugly in my eyes if I see them display loud manners, or negative behaviours.
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Personality is something can’t be measured from outer Beauty only , need to have a beautiful soul and strong character to mark a effect on other beings . I am so happy you visited my blog post and post your review ☺️☺️☺️
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Thanks for joining me 😉
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Your welcome 😊
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Very true!
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Thanks rue202 ☺️☺️
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Absolutely agree..Your inner beauty matters the most.. beautifully explained!!
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Thank you so much ☺️
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Always my pleasure! 😊
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Spot on! Absolutely agreed with you!
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Thanks dear . I also agree 😊
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Very true. Even if different personality attracts diff people. It is personality to a huge extent that draws people close, the rest mostly being the environment.
Great post.
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Yeah so true said , I totally agree with you !!!!😊😊😊😊
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Agreed.. Inner beauty is more important.. The outer one just fades away..
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Yes data what I want to convey ☺️
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Amazing post loved it💛
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Thank you 😊
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Most welcome friend 💛
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Excellent points. 🙂
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Thanks you 😊
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well written and expressed with truism…
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Hey thanks a lot 😊
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your welcome
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“For me, the beauty of a person is a matter of the whole package. You have to look at the whole thing, not just a matter of outward appearance or whatever. It has to do with one’s character, personality, upbringing and so on.” this says it all and exactly how i am. the cover may draw you in, but it is the substance that keeps you involved. and to me, you seem to be the total package.
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Thank you 😊
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you are most welcome
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💖💖
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Superb! I loved the line-“For me the beauty of a person is a matter of whole package”
You hv said every thing in this one single line in a gaagar mei saagar style. Samajh sako to theek hai warna sab bekar hai!
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Hahaha 🙏
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There is a saying “you do not buy a book for a nice cover, look at the content, the interior”. I think that everything in us is important, the appearance too. But personality traits, temperament, spirituality, our passions and our spontaneity. You’re right WE ARE THE ENTITY. One only needs to cover the book. For me, the interior is more important.
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First of all a big thanks to connect with me here . Yes personality is a broader things like I cannot copy someone’s else such that the person is very attractive or successful in life . I believe in myself and the confidence inside me makes me different from others . A copying cannot reflects perfect in front of the world as an original one does . I love being me and I know I have enough potential to grow better and better in life .
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Faith moves the mountain. You have power in yourself.
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Yes I believe in myself a lot and I think God has given every one of us a unique talent inside just need to find out that in oneself !!!!!!
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Everyone has talents. One less second more. It is worth looking for and accepting, developing.
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Well said I totally agree with you dear . ☺️
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Thanks for such a beautiful picture !!!!!😊
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Agreed A person is attractive as a whole sometimes for reasons you don’t understand. Attraction is not wholly rational
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True said I totally agree with you !!! So kind of you to get your feedback here . I am so glad 😊
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Totally agree.personality is a complex of things all defining us as unique,it’s our vibe and that is what conquer ,or not,the other people we meet
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Yes you are true , I am so glad to get your views . Keep sharing your thoughts and many thanks for visiting my blog 😊
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That’s well written!
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Thank you so much dear 😊
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The pleasure is all mine 🙂
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Buona serata.
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I don’t understand this language 😊
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buona serata Italy
Good evening
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Thats true.
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Hey thanks 😊
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Well written…. Thanks for sharing 😍
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Thank you too 😊
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Totally agree with looking at the whole person. 👍
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Yes indeed 😊 .Keep sharing your thoughts .
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Sometimes 😉
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Three steps in marketing are Attract attention-Raise Interest- Arouse desire.
In relationships is the same. The external package attracts attention. Your personality might either raise interest or even arouse desire if you have charisma.
But if your package is not appreciated nobody could ever experienced your personality because he/she stops at the previous stage. That also means of course that beauty is an advantage.
Saluti e grazie del passaggio fatti rivedere.
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Thank you so much for your beautiful explanation . I totally agree with your points here that your total package counts regardless of one ‘s Beauty only . Because Beauty is something that will always fades away with time .😊Thank you for visiting my blog .
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Very interesting post
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Hey thank you so much for your visit to my post 😊
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super like (y)
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Thanksgiving 😊
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Absolutely…
But the bitter truth is that people always get attracted by outer beauty in the first impression
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Such that they don’t have a correct vision towards life I guess , thank you 😊 for your feedback.
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Ya your welcome
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Well stated…
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Thanks 😊
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Quiet can be nice. That’s the very quality I appreciate most about my dog! He just is. He doesn’t have to tell me all about it. 🙂
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What is his name as I love dog . Thanks a lot for visiting my blog post . 😊😊🌸🌸
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You’re welcome. His name is Miles, because he makes us walk lots of them. Kilometers just doesn’t have the same ring!
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Wow it’s a beautiful name . I guess you have a wonderful time with him . Lots of love to miles 💕💕🌸🌸😊
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Absolutely right!
Ciao from Italy
Vicky
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Hey Thank you for your response and I am really happy to get connected with you 💕🌸💕😊
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Me too! 🌹🌹😊💕💕
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We can only show how much they can handle our true selves are masked to make them feel perfect
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Yeah you got right here , I agree with you🌸
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Omg u liked my rant
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Bonjour mon Ami Amie
C’est l’heure pour moi de passer
Dans ton bel univers déposer un petit
Commentaire d’amitié te dire que
Si chacune de mes pensées
Se transformeraient en fleurs
Chaque jour un bouquet
Viendrait embellir ta demeure
C’ est toute la douceur de leurs parfums
Que je t’envoie!!!!
Une agréable journée ou soirée
Gros bisous. Bernard
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Hello Bernard unfortunately I don’t understand French language so I would request you to write in English so that I can get your words !!!😊
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Agreed. In practice though outwardly attractive people our noticed easier but being noticed and “attracting” people is not the same thing
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Thank you so much for your valuable words !!!! I agree with your wordings here . Keep sharing your thoughts 😊
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Bonjour ou bonsoir mon Ami AMIE

Je te souhaite plein de bonnes choses
La beauté du silence
La gloire de la lumière
Le mystère de la pénombre
La force de la flamme
Le pouvoir de l’eau
La douceur de l’air
La force tranquille de la terre
L’amour qui se trouve
aux racines des choses
Je te souhaite de passer une agréable journée
Riche de joie et de bonheur et du soleil dans le cœur
Reçois ce petit câlin……et ce bisou ce matin
Et aussi ce soir
Bonne journée et bonne soirée douce nuit
BERNARD
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je ne comprends pas le français. J’ai utilisé une bonne traduction pour comprendre ce que vous avez écrit. merci pour vos mots d’amour et de visiter mon blog. Je comprends l’anglais ou l’allemand.
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