Every now and often , we are asked by many people in our life that-‘Are you really happy as you share such a positive things and happy moments “, Is your life really going all perfect ? So I have shared my thoughts and feelings on this topic ,hope you all like it –
Since our childhood we are being told by our parents and elders not to crib or cry for small desire , be always happy , life life as your own way , stay positive in adverse situations of life and always keep yourself fit to take the challenges of the life etc etc and I am sure that by now we all know this and how all of us make the most of each day .
We start our day with a positive mind each day but there are lot of things which make our day not so positive for example we can have a bad day in our office , may be due to any reason your boss is not happy with you or your peers , another example is your relationship . You are having complication in your relationship whether it is with your husband / boyfriend or with your closest friend can make you feel low or sad .Your mental power is so low that even you cannot concentrate properly on your work or daily life .Another example I can take is your health issues, which might be you are not taking seriously .
Then after dealing with such stuffs we start to find our happiness in others . we start to look for happiness in people around us or the one who inspire us . Some people really work as a medicine for us and give us a hope that we can have a happy life like others .I can say that no one is having a perfect life as we see from outside .If one’s post regularly their happy pictures on social media , its doesn’t mean that their is no problem in their life . We need to understand this .
I find happiness in myself . I don’t need any external medium to make me happy . I can be happy playing with a small baby or Having a cup of coffee in my balcony . I engage my mind in such a way that their is no time to think of others or why i am not successful as others are . I can be happy seeing the birds flying in the sky or the clouds covering the moon . I can be happy when the rain is going to start or solving any issues of my friend who is having a hard day at work.
One thing is very important in life that never compare yourself with anyone.Trust me , no one gets life served on a plate . Its the attitude to look at the glass half full which makes happy looking people genuinely happy so work hard , be sincere and have the right attitude towards life !!