Harsh Truth of life !!


Read it out some of the harsh truth of life until it happens to make a best version of yourself .  I  think it gonna head it in right direction and make progress to your life .  These are the bitter truth of the life but you have to accept it .

You Are Going to Lose Everything Eventually

Everything you have is borrowed, and there is going to be a time you’ll have to give it all back. Your money, clothes and property won’t stay with you forever. Friends and family members pass on and some grow apart from you. Even existence itself is time-limited.

I’m guessing some readers feel this is a needlessly depressing topic. Focusing on death and the impermanence of everything is scary for many people. I don’t see it that way. In fact, the sheer impermanence in life is actually freeing. If you can fully accept it, you are free to enjoy this existence focusing on what really matters, instead of worrying about all the crap that isn’t important.

life isn’t fair

Things always not go in our way or the way we want it would be .What imporatant is to keep a positive mind and deal with it .

People aren’t going to be always nice to you .

Some times no matter how nice you are but some people will be always rude or in attitude with you . You can stand up for yourself and still care about what someone has to say. Human beings are dynamic like that.It’s not in anyone’s best interest if you go out of your way to be nice. In fact, being nice can be detrimental to you and those around you in a number of ways.

No one is perfect .

No one is perfect.  So everyone has strengths and weaknesses. Some of us are creative. We see the big picture, but not the details. Others are detail oriented to the point they miss seeing the forest, but take in each and every tree.

Perfection is only an ideal, not a reality. Life keeps EVOLVING…with no end. Perfection implies and END.

Change always happens.

Always remember
Life is what you make it ! Don’t underestimate when you are knocked down, rising above all odds is the only solution to this.

You never get your wasted time back

If you love life,don’t waste time,for time is what life is made up of.Lost time can never be bought back.Time once wasted will never forgive you for not utilizing it .Just as they say” Time and Tide waits for none.”We never know if the opportunities we have today , will still be there later.Life is very uncertain and if you fail to live every moment like its your last, you might have to regret later

Happiness is what you do for others

There is a Chinese saying that goes: “If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap. If you want happiness for a day, go fishing. If you want happiness for a year, inherit a fortune. If you want happiness for a lifetime, help somebody.” For centuries, the greatest thinkers have suggested the same thing: Happiness is found in helping others.

You like being alone but you are not a loner.

“If you’re lonely when you’re alone, you’re in bad company.” – Jean-Paul Sartre

It is impossible to exist without social contact. You can be as strong and self-sufficient as you like, but at the end of the day you need to interact in a real, personal and meaningful way, which is neither Facebook nor Twitter. You need to be in contact with real people for this.At the same time, you can enjoy quiet time alone and be comfortable.

 Money is tight

Nobody wants to be stalked by debt or creditors. You have to work out how best to stay within your budget. Think of ways to save, like having packed lunches. Never go shopping without a list. Avoid impulsive buys. Use cash as much as you can. Leave the credit cards at home as they tend to lull you into a fantasy world.

Lower your expectations

Don’t think that people will always be there when you fall or fail. The phone will go silent. Many friends will suddenly be very busy with their own problems. When I was recovering from a fall, not one person in my condo offered to help me with carrying the shopping!

Your dreams come true only when YOU make them come true.

 And that’s precisely what makes them worth having and working hard for.

If achievement had no price, it would be of no value.

 Pay the price.  Do the work, and enjoy the rewards.  It is far better to be exhausted from meaningful work than to be tired of doing nothing.  Put in the effort and live the life you’ve imagined

So what do you think?  For me, above all, these points remind me that living a rewarding life isn’t easy, and it certainly isn’t guaranteed, but it’s possible with the right attitude and drive, and worth every bit of effort you can muster.

So with this theme in mind, here are a few harsh truths that I hope will jolt you awake and motivate you to make changes – to do what it takes – to live your version of a great life: Post your views in the comment section !!!!

Author: getyurownstyle

“ I feel that the simplicity of life is just being yourself.”😊

33 thoughts on “Harsh Truth of life !!”

  1. Perfection implies an end. I live this. Every point you make. I agree with. Nothing in life is permanent except for our spirit. I believe that we move on into the spirit world ince we leave the physical body.

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  2. Coincidently I was thinking about your point on expectations the other day. I think having high expectations can be both a strength and a weakness at the same time. It’s great to have standards, values and a bar in life, in fact I think that’s important, but it takes a lot of emotional intelligence/acceptance, to not get hung up each time the bar isn’t met – and just focus on being an example of our own standards in the way we treat others (hopefully it will rub off and make an impression). #karma

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    1. Hi cherryl , I am happy you gone through my post and liked my points on expectations and yes it do hurt if we expects much from others rather than beleiving in our self . We can only expects a lil support from our family rest all we can do it by ourown capability. I don’t think there is anything which we can’t do if we have that determinations inside our self !!!!

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  3. Some very profound message in the post. While wise men say nothing is permanent and only truth in life is change, I think there is no disagreement. But watch the tele serial House of Cards, that may give an idea how world behaves and many try to act by acquiring power.

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