Does your personality attracts people !

Attraction is not always about looks or getting styled. It’s about a certain primal magnetism. Of course, we can be physically attracted to someone by our style and beautyIMG_9161, but we are more often drawn to their confidence, passion and personality. Being attractive is about more than just appearance.

I have a lot of sides to my personality and what you see on ‘The Hills’ is a strong, independent woman, which I am. But I also have a sensitive side that I don’t show too much.
Somehow our society has formed a one-sided view of the human personality, and for some reason everyone understood that it is  gifted and  only as it applied to the intellect. But it is possible not only to be talented in one’s thoughts but also to be talented in one’s feelings as well. I’ve always avoided publicity. I’ve never been good copy at any stage of my life. I don’t strive for it, because I don’t think it’s important whether I’m good copy or not. The two can go together, if that’s your personality, but every person on this earth is unique.

I wasn’t a friendly child. I was reserved and mostly kept to myself. My family tells me they’ve noticed a sea change in me after I’ve grown up. But I guess that’s natural. Your surroundings, friends, college, etc. do make a lot of difference to your personality.

If you have anything really valuable to contribute to the world it will come through the expression of your own personality, that single spark of divinity that sets you off and makes you different from every other living creature.We recruit our people for personality. We look for the people person, with innate warmth, sweetness, and intelligence. These are the people who are sending your message out to the customers and potential customers, so we recruit for personality first and foremost.

For me, the beauty of a person is a matter of the whole package. You have to look at the whole thing, not just a matter of outward appearance or whatever. It has to do with one’s character, personality, upbringing and so on.

 

 

 

Sunshine Blogger Award

I am so glad and excited for nomination of this award .Thanks to dear daneelyunus for nominating me for this award . This is my first nomination for any blogger award so I am pretty excited .

Daneelyunus is really a kind heart and amazing blogger .  I always read his blog and get a lot of idea about blogging . I hope Daneelyunus will always support me to continue my blogging ahead in life .

Rules

1.Thanks the blogger(s) that nominate you .

2.List the rules and display the Sunshine Blogger Award logo on your post / blog .

3.Answer the questions.

4.Make a new set of 11 questions for your nominees to answer.

5.Nominate 5-12 bloggers and share your post with them so they see it .IMG-9136

My Answers

1.What is your real name ?

Ans : My real name is Preety Nisha.

2.What are your hobbies ?

Ans: There are two activities that I am fond of, Photography and learning foreign language . Photography has enriched me with having a broader perspective and made me a keen observer. I have a  DSLR and spend all my free time experimenting with it . Secondly I love learning new languages. It is a challenging hobby but it keeps my brain and learning faculties from getting lazy. I am a fluent speaker of German language .

3 . Is love marriage or arrange marriage is right as your opinion?

Ans: Actually both are right in their own perspective but i will go for love marriage as

  • You know your lover well and there is a great amount of comfort level.
  • Love marriage has more freedom because it is out of free will.
  • There is good mutual understanding between the two.
  • If it works well, it can be long and happy married life

4.What is your favorite actor ,actress, and movie ?

Ans: My favorite actor is Liam Neeson and my favorite actress is Scarlett Johanssen.My favorite movie is The grey .

5.Which is preferred Boyfriend / Girlfriend relationship or Friendship?

Ans: I will prefer friendship more than relationship as having a strong network of buddies also increases self-confidence, plus they provide much-needed emotional support during trying times, like illness, loss of a loved one or divorce .

6.Which is your favorite singer?

Ans: My favorite singer is shakira .

7.What is your dream for future?

Ans: My future dreams are:

1.Go on a world tour .

2.Skydive & scuba diving 

3.Own a Mercedes or Lexus

4.Meet the Following People:
George Bush ,Hillary Clinton
The Dalai Lama

5.Give a talk to an audience of 10,000 people

6. Have a loving life partner .

8.Which is best relationship, relatives or Friends ?

Ans: Friendship is the best relationship .

9.Is it necessary to become a girlfriend or boyfriend?

Ans: No it is not neccessary , one can enjoy being engage in many activities if he / she have good friends in their life to support and motivate.

10.What are your favorite serial?

Ans:My favorite serial  currently is Bepannah on colors . I always look forward to relaxing in front of the TV and watching the romantic thirty-minute episodes.

11.what type of serial and movies you like ?

Ans: I like  romantic mystery drama show as i am bit romantic in nature and in movies i like adventurous movies because i love nature

Questions to my Nominees

  1. Whom you are close to more Mom or Dad?
  2. What is your favorite food?
  3. Who is your idol of life?
  4. What do you consider your greatest weakness to be?
  5. What does your perfect day look like?
  6. Do you consider yourself a good friend?
  7. What is your favorite thing to do?
  8. Have you ever been heartbroken?
  9. Would you rather be rich or famous?
  10. What does the meaning of  love to you?
  11. What is your favorite dessert?
  12. What makes you feel most loved?

My Nominees

1 Jyoti Biswas

2 janowrite

3 Rad Gamer  

4 sadhana jain

5.my640

6 rue202

7 Vessels of Vision

8 Image Earth Travel

9 Bharath Upendra

10 rhscribbles

Congratulations to all the nominee’s for this award ! I love your blog and hence it was worth nominating for this award .

Keep blogging !!

My visit to a garden!

IMG_9130I went to a garden in Pune city . This garden is called Agah Khan palace and garden .It is present in the middle of the town . It’s so beautiful that it can capture your mind when seen from outside.IMG_9128

My visiting to this garden was quite refreshing and educative. With the increase of population in towns and cities, open spaces are becoming very rare. Gardens, grounds and lawns are the lungs of a modern city. I like going to the garden and  spending some time in the beautiful company of nature. A garden is place of beauty. It presents a feast of joy before us. Its shady trees seem to invite me during the summers and its green sunny lawns catch my eyes in the winter season.IMG_9127

I am a complete nature and woods lover . I like the smell of woods and keep myself surrounded with nature .One can see a row of roses that attract the eyes of the beholder. I enjoy a stroll in the garden both in the morning and in the evening. At that time I forget all the worries of life.IMG_9132

Also here Gandhi and his wife stayed , people can get a lot of information about Ghandi and his life . His wife Kasturba Gandhi funeral is also done at the backyard of the garden . I was glad to see the things that Ghandi used in his life . I saw few researchers taking pictures and information about Ghandi. In the middle of the garden, there is a fountain and a small tank. The tank teems with colored fish of various kinds. Children flock to the tank and play with the fish. The garden also serves as a nest of singing birds. Many beautiful birds perch in the trees in the evening and pour out their melodious songs.IMG_9129

I can assure you that the fragrance of the flowers lends a sweet charm to the whole atmosphere. I can also say that this place is quite a nice place to have digital photography as it’s so beautifully decorated and designed. I saw couples having some photo shoot at the same time . Many people visit the garden at different hours of the day. I go specially in evening to the garden . IMG_9131I have really a good time in the garden which is veritably a paradise on the 🌏 . I would like to tell you my friends who are living in Pune or Mumbai area please have a visit to this amazing garden.

Be Positive in life

I’m proud of my hard work. Working hard won’t always lead to the exact things we desire. There are many things I’ve wanted that I haven’t always gotten. But, I have a great satisfaction in the blessings from my mother and father, who instilled a great work ethic in me both personally and professionally.29357187_1993031180725083_4656662860116525056_o

Your personal life, your professional life, and your creative life are all intertwined. I went through a few very difficult years where I felt like a failure. But it was actually really important for me to go through that. Struggle, for me, is the most inspirational thing in the world at the end of the day – as long as you treat it that way.

Choose your friends wisely !

 There’s growing evidence that genuine friendships may be very important in terms of your personal and professional life. Even as an adult, friends can have a big influence over how you feel, think, and behave  . Here are five reasons you should maintain healthy friendships:5-Reasons-To-Choose-Your-Friends-Wisely

1. Strong-willed friends can help increase your self-control.

 Since self-control is vital to reaching long-term goals, befriending people with willpower could be the secret to success.If you struggle to resist temptation, surrounding yourself with people who possess a high degree of self-discipline can help.  when people are running low on self-control, they often seek out self-disciplined people to boost their willpower.

 Whether you’re tempted to skip that workout at the gym, or you’re considering blowing this month’s budget, a friend with high self-control can motivate you to maintain healthy habits. 

2. Having fewer friends increases the likelihood that you’ll take financial risks.980x

Whether you’re dealing with a recent break-up, a fallout with family, or a failed business venture, be aware of how your emotions may affect your spending habits. Uncomfortable emotions can certainly increase the chances that you’ll behave more recklessly than usual, which may not be wise for your financial future.

3. Too many connections on social media may increase your stress level. choose-your-friends-wisely

Stress arises as people try to present a version of themselves online that will be acceptable to all their social media contacts. While your college buddies may enjoy publicly discussing that “cultural college fest days ,” your parents and your co-workers may be less than impressed by those stories. So before you begin adding everyone you can to your social circle, remember that having too much friends on social media is a anxiety provoking .

4. Close friends could be the secret to longevity. When older adults have close confidants, they’re ikely to live longer, according to a study conducted by Australia’s Flinder’s University. After following 1,500 people for 10 years, researchers discovered that people with a large network of friends outlived their counterparts by 22%.4. Close friends could be the secret to longevity. When older adults have close confidants, they’re ikely to live longer, according to a study conducted by Australia’s Flinder’s University. After following 1,500 people for 10 years, researchers discovered that people with a large network of friends outlived their counterparts by 22%.4. Close friends could be the secret to longevity. When older adults have close confidants, they’re ikely to live longer, according to a study conducted by Australia’s Flinder’s University. After following 1,500 people for 10 years, researchers discovered that people with a large network of friends outlived their counterparts by 22%.4. Close friends could be the secret to longevity. When older adults have close confidants, they’re ikely to live longer, according to a study conducted by Australia’s Flinder’s University. After following 1,500 people for 10 years, researchers discovered that people with a large network of friends outlived their counterparts by 22%.4. Close friends could be the secret to longevity. When older adults have close confidants, they’re ikely to live longer, according to a study conducted by Australia’s Flinder’s University. After following 1,500 people for 10 years, researchers discovered that people with a large network of friends outlived their counterparts by 22%.4. Close friends could be the secret to longevity. When older adults have close confidants, they’re ikely to live longer, according to a study conducted by Australia’s Flinder’s University. After following 1,500 people for 10 years, researchers discovered that people with a large network of friends outlived their counterparts by 22%.

4. Close friends could be the secret to longevity.A-mistake-is-simply-a-1

 When older adults have close confidants, they are  to live longer,  researchers discovered that people with a large network of friends outlived their counterparts by 22%.

Other studies touting the health benefits of friendship have shown people with cancer live longer when they attend support groups. Close friendships can help ward off depression and boost immunity as well. So while it may be tempting to think that friends are sometimes more trouble than they’re worth, clearly, having close friends can be one of the best things you can do for your health.

5. Friends can greatly influence your choices. 

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 Friends often bond by providing one another with moral support to resist a temptation. However, friends also commonly conspire together to enjoy indulgences. Researchers discovered that when it came to resisting temptations – like eating chocolate – sometimes friends were more likely to become partners in crime as they decided to indulge together.

Friends can help bring out the best in you without expecting perfection. They can remind you not to take life too seriously, as well as give you that much needed boost when you’re feeling discouraged.

research shows having too many “friends” on Facebook can be anxiety-provoking

 

 

IS SOMEONE A SEASON, REASON OR A LIFETIME?

Many of us can meet people in our lives and we might not be aware of why they have arrived or left, and it could take us a while to realise this.

I am attaching below a beautiful poem After you’ve read this, pick a few different people in your life and find out whether they are a Season, Reason or a Lifetime.season-reason-or-lifetime-poem

Reason

If someone is a Reason, it can mean that you met them because you needed to learn an important lesson in some way or another. For example:

– It may have that you have been with someone  who treated you badly but  later on made you realise that you  deserve someone more  better. Now you might have a completely different outlook on relationships and might have a frame of mind that never lets you settle for being second best. Learning this type of lesson could make you have more confidence and self respect, strengthening your future partnerships with people you meet.

– You might have a  friend you valued may have been and gone in your life for no bitter reason. If you look back at who you were before you met them, it could reveal a lot about how they have influenced who you are today. Your friend may have gotten you involved in a hobby or an interest of theirs that has shaped your career and lifestyle. Friends can empower us, even if we don’t know it yet if a friend is no longer a close one, it’s probably because they were meant to introduce you to something important.

– you may have met someone who has acted as a teacher or guide, such as professor at University or an acquaintance that you once looked up to.
Many of us remember a certain teacher at school who taught us a lot more than school subjects.
These people are often excellent at solving problems that younger people do not have an understanding of yet. Even decades after they are no longer in your life, you may still think about them with a smile on your face.

Season

If someone is a Season, it can mean that you met them because they were meant to help shape your personality and individuality into what it is today.

– Many of us will have that friend that changes the way we see ourselves. If you’ve had a friend who is very free spirited, you may have learnt to not take yourself too seriously and have more fun in life. Before them arriving on the scene, you may have ran away from being spontaneous in life and been anxious about many different things. All of us go through periods of personal growth and this can be because of an individual who have helped us become the person we were really meant to be.

– You may have had a very loving, deep relationship with someone for years. This person may not be in your life anymore.
Before meeting this person, you may have been someone who hide their feelings to the point of being cold. However after falling in love with this person, they may have taught you how be an open person, instead of shutting people off.
On the other hand, an ending to a relationship could have been your fault which has taught you to look deeply at your attitude towards others for a positive change.

– There may have been someone you have only been in contact with for a couple of months or weeks, such as a time of travelling. This person could have been responsible for how your life has changed for the future. For example, meeting this person may have encouraged you to travel more or take a different path, changing what you have wanted for your career, relationships and family life.

Lifetime

If someone is a Lifetime, it can mean that this person is here to stay in your life for a very, very long time.

– This could be an ex-partner who you have children with. This relationship might teach you how to respect others and be civil for the sake of your family, regardless of any arguments in the past.
Ex-partners are often seen as negative, yet they can actually become a friendship if both people understand that the romantic aspect was not meant to last. There are many ex-partners that wish each other well in life and this could be a great way to learn how to forgive and move on without completely banning someone from your life.

– Many of us will have family members that will be in our lives for many decades. These people could see us grow from being very young to old, developing our personalities and strengths throughout life’s challenges.
People such as parents, aunties, grandparents and other mature relatives will be excellent at guiding you towards happiness because they know your personality so well and will often have your best interest at heart.

– We could be lucky enough to have friends that stick by our side for years and years. Many people will have high school friends that still show up at their birthday parties well into their 50s. These Lifetime people are excellent because it shows that even though we all change, we can still be very well matched to certain people and experience important life events together.

– Finally, this person could be a long term partner who have taught you how to accept yourself and love who you are.
This type of person is one that many of us want in our lives to be our happiest selves. If you meet a partner who is a Lifetime, you will most likely experience life changing events with them, such as moving in together, getting married and having children. You might see this person as the “Love of your life” which is wonderful and who knows, you might grow old (gracefully) with them!

Positive and negative effects of social media

Social media  has changed the way we talk, do business, get our daily news fix and so much more. But is it really all worth it ?maxresdefault

That  solely depends on whom you talking to and how you’re using it in a daily basis . A very popular site like Facebookcould serve as an opportunistic launching pad for a new business owner, or it could be an inescapable source of negative peer pressure for a young teen. There are pros and cons to everything in life – and that includes our social networking habits.

Here are some of the major pros and cons that most people are familiar with. As you go through them, ask yourself how you can take more advantage of the pros while minimizing the cons whenever you decide to check out your favorite social networks.

Pros of Social Networking

Ability to connect to other people all over the world. One of the most obvious pros of using social networks is the ability to instantly reach people from anywhere. Use Facebook to stay in touch with your old high school friends who’ve relocated all over the country, get on Google Hangouts with relatives who live halfway around the world, or meet brand new people on Twitter from cities or regions you’ve never even heard of before.

Easy and instant communication. Now that we’re connected wherever we go, we don’t have to rely on our landlines, answering machines or snail mail to contact somebody. We can simply open up our laptops or pick up our smartphones and immediately start communicating with anyone on platforms like Twitter or one of the many social messaging apps available.

Real-time news and information discovery. Gone are the days of waiting around for the six o’clock news to come on TV or for the delivery boy to bring the newspaper in the morning. If you want to know what’s going on in the world, all you need to do is jump on social media. An added bonus is that you can customize your news and information discovery experiences by choosing to follow exactly what you want.

Great opportunities for business owners. Business owners and other types of professional organizations can connect with current customers, sell their products and expand their reach using social media. There are actually lots of entrepreneurs and businesses out there that thrive almost entirely on social networks and wouldn’t even be able to operate without it.

General fun and enjoyment. You have to admit that social networking is just plain fun sometimes. A lot of people turn to it when they catch a break at work or just want to relax at home. Since people are naturally social creatures, it’s often quite satisfying to see comments and likes show up on our own posts, and it’s convenient to be able to see exactly what our friends are up to without having to ask them directly.

Cons of Social Networking

Information overwhelm. With so many people now on social media tweeting links and posting selfies and sharing YouTube videos, it sure can get pretty noisy. Becoming overwhelmed by too many Facebook friends to keep up with or too many Instagram photos to browse through isn’t all that uncommon. Over time, we tend to rack up a lot of friends and followers, and that can lead to lots of bloated news feeds with too much content we’re not all that interested in.

Privacy issues. With so much sharing going on, issues over privacy will always be a big concern. Whether it’s a question of social sites owning your content after it’s posted, becoming a target after sharing your geographical location online, or even getting in trouble at work after tweeting something inappropriate – sharing too much with the public can open up all sorts of problems that sometimes can’t ever be undone.

Social peer pressure and cyber bullying. For people struggling to fit in with their peers – especially teens and young adults – the pressure to do certain things or act a certain way can be even worse on social media than it is at school or any other offline setting. In some extreme cases, the overwhelming pressure to fit in with everyone posting on social media or becoming the target of a cyberbullying attack can lead to serious stress, anxiety and even depression.

Online interaction substitution for offline interaction. Since people are now connected all the time and you can pull up a friend’s social profile with a click of your mouse or a tap of your smartphone, it’s a lot easier to use online interaction as a substitute for face-to-face interaction. Some people argue that social media actually promotes antisocial human behavior.

Distraction and procrastination. How often do you see someone look at their phone? People get distracted by all the social apps and news and messages they receive, leading to all sorts of problems like distracted driving or the lack of gaining someone’s full attention during a conversation. Browsing social media can also feed procrastination habits and become something people turn to in order to avoid certain tasks or responsibilities.

Sedentary lifestyle habits and sleep disruption. Lastly, since social networking is all done on some sort of computer or mobile device, it can sometimes promote too much sitting down in one spot for too long. Likewise, staring into the artificial light from a computer or phone screen at night can negatively affect your ability to get a proper night’s sleep.

 

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Positive thinking is a way of life !

We affect, and are affected by the people we meet, in one way or another. This happens instinctively and on a subconscious level, through words, thoughts and feelings, and through body language.

Is it any wonder that we want to be around positive people, and prefer to avoid negative ones?

Positive thinking often starts with self-talk. Self-talk is the endless stream of unspoken thoughts that run through your head. These automatic thoughts can be positive or negative. Some of your self-talk comes from logic and reason. Other self-talk may arise from misconceptions that you create because of lack of information.

If the thoughts that run through your head are mostly negative, your outlook on life is more likely pessimistic. If your thoughts are mostly positive, you’re likely an optimist — someone who practices positive thinking.

What Negative Thoughts Do to Your Brain

Play along with me for a moment.image_6483441

Let’s say that you’re walking through the forest and suddenly a tiger steps onto the path ahead of you. When this happens, your brain registers a negative emotion — in this case, fear.

Researchers have long known that negative emotions program your brain to do a specific action. When that tiger crosses your path, for example, you run. The rest of the world doesn’t matter. You are focused entirely on the tiger, the fear it creates, and how you can get away from it.

In other words, negative emotions narrow your mind and focus your thoughts. At that same moment, you might have the option to climb a tree, pick up a leaf, or grab a stick — but your brain ignores all of those options because they seem irrelevant when a tiger is standing in front of you.

This is a useful instinct if you’re trying to save life and limb, but in our modern society we don’t have to worry about stumbling across tigers in the wilderness. The problem is that your brain is still programmed to respond to negative emotions in the same way — by shutting off the outside world and limiting the options you see around you.Thinking-Wallpapers-001

The health benefits of positive thinking

  • Increased life span
  • Lower rates of depression
  • Lower levels of distress
  • Greater resistance to the common cold
  • Better psychological and physical well-being
  • Better cardiovascular health and reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease
  • Better coping skills during hardships and times of stress293a518951b1c2e1fef492ac566d488a

Putting positive thinking into practice

Negative self-talk Positive thinking
I’ve never done it before. It’s an opportunity to learn something new.
It’s too complicated. I’ll tackle it from a different angle.
I don’t have the resources. Necessity is the mother of invention.
I’m too lazy to get this done. I wasn’t able to fit it into my schedule, but I can re-examine some priorities.
There’s no way it will work. I can try to make it work.
It’s too radical a change. Let’s take a chance.
No one bothers to communicate with me. I’ll see if I can open the channels of communication.

I Love to travel

what would be nicer on a warm, sunny spring day than to enjoy a leisurely wander along a hill side.  With this in mind, we jumped in the car and drove to Lavasa, a small hill side in West Pune.  The town is approximately one hour drive from Pune city  .17883908_1617509461610592_1652563944916253273_n

The car park we took a right turn along a path crossing two footbridges to reach the hillside.  From the bridge we could see several brightly coloured narrow boats moored on both banks, sun sets behind the mountain .  From here, we headed in an easterly direction with the river on our left, along the townpath towards the centre of the hill side 17523221_1617537738274431_7352529844696486143_n

There were beautiful decoration of flowers and newly constructed house .They were designed for old  retired senior citizen person . We met few senior citizen and know how they are feeling at this hill side .Some elderly people were staying their for long time and explained that is little behind the facility of a metropolitan  being at the top of the hill. Continue reading “I Love to travel”

Be yourself !!!

So many people will tell you ”no”, and you need to find something you believe in so hard that you just smile and tell them ”watch me”. Learn to take rejection as motivation to prove people wrong. Be unstoppable. Refuse to give up, no matter what. It’s the best skill you can ever learn.

Doing the work to transform your dreams into reality is like walking across the earth. It can be that hard, and it can take that long. If you walk from the North Pole to the South Pole, at one point you will go through the desert. It is part of the journey.

In this industrial era, a lot of things are mass produced. It is harder than ever to be yourself when others want you to be mass produced too. But no lifetime, no matter how successful, will be truly rewarding or happy if you cannot learn to love yourself and be yourself. And while it may seem harder than ever now, these quotes about being yourself come from famous writers, philosophers, businesspersons, and celebrities throughout history who have struggled to find their identity, just like you.26991664_162925711151501_1806434950751456806_n